By: Qesankh Maa Kheperu
Let me fill you in on a little secret. I am very good at controlling people. In fact, I used to get every job I interviewed for. I dated many Hollywood starlets and found investors for my films. Now, how did I accomplish these feats? I know what you are going to say. All the above is easy when you’re extremely good-looking and charming like me. But even if you’re not as pretty as I am, you can still influence the people in your life. I’m about to reveal the secret of how this is done. And once I do, you’re gonna want to name your first born after me. Just kidding! (Or am I?)
Before I reveal this technique, let me say something that will lay the foundation. Everyone, and I mean everyone, in your life is nothing but a holographic representation. They are avatars. Before you came to earth, you made an agreement with these folks to have certain experiences with them. That means the interactions you are having with them now (good or bad) are merely the unfolding of those planned agreements. So if someone does you wrong – or if, like me, every girl wants you put a baby in her belly – that’s all part of the agreement you made.
Now, here is where it gets interesting. All the things you see in the world around you are merely symbols or representations of what is going on inside you. In fact, there is no outside world. It’s all in your head! You are projecting outward your present state of being and creating a hologram of things and people to interact with in order to create your experience. And peep this, my homie. Nothing is real. The only thing that is real is the experience itself. Deep, right? I know, I’m pretty awesome (if I do say so myself).
Okay, now that I have laid the foundation for you, you need to understand the law of state transference in order to control the people that you’ve created in your life. When I say “state,” I mean the emotional state you find yourself in at any given moment. And since emotions or states are energy vibrations, they permeate out and affect others around you. What you feel, they feel. Ya dig? So in order to control the holographic representation of people around you that you interact with daily, you must first learn to put yourself into the emotional states that you want from them.
Now, here is where I break down the formula. (Get ready to name your baby after me!)
If while interviewing for a job, for example, I want the person interviewing me to believe I am the best person for the position, I hold in my mind an image of me doing an awesome job at that particular company. Then while holding this image in my mind, I place myself in a high emotional state. Next, I maintain deep eye contact with the interviewer. Now, this is very important: you must maintain eye contact, but do not stare. There’s a difference. Staring comes off as creepy. Next and most important, you must lead the conversation. This means being the first and last person to speak and guiding the direction of the conversation as it goes along, while still doing everything I mentioned above.
Got it? Here’s the last step – the icing on the cake. Tell the interviewer a story. Fill the story with descriptive words that force the person to visualize what you are saying. You will need to pick a story that is appropriate for the situation and that is, more importantly, a metaphor for what is taking place. It should be a short story – one that you feel close to. For example, if I want to get the job, I may tell a quick story about Rocky and how he was the underdog but became victorious in the ring. Or I might talk about how J. K Rowling was broke and got numerous rejections for her Harry Potter manuscript – but then went on to fame and fortune. See where I am going? The story is embedding a hidden message in the interviewer’s subconscious mind that you are the prize.
Although I gave the example of an interview situation, this technique can work with anyone or any situation if done properly. The key is to remember that everyone is a product of your creation – that you are in the driver’s seat. See, the folks that come into our lives express themselves according to our strongest emotional beliefs. Those strong beliefs can be either good or bad, which results in our seeing both sides in the individuals we encounter. The people who are polarized in our own beliefs will usually form our close circle of friends.
Unfortunately, our Western world has taught us that to change a person, we need to open the channels of communication and tell them how we feel – and vise versa. This is not necessarily true. To change people, one only needs to change oneself. That’s because you cannot attract the vibration of something unless you match that vibration yourself. Whether it is because of your present energy or past-life agreements, the folks in your life are there for a reason.
I often have people ask me whether they are with the right mate. The easy answer is of course you are – even if that person is causing you hell (as Halle Berry once did for me before I gave her the walking papers). Every person in your life is a right match for you based on the energy you are presently putting out there. So give that some serious thought.
And with all that said, I must make my grand exit. I am working on manifesting some women in my life who won’t demand so much sweet loving from me. I am truly exhausted…from buying them flowers and gifts. (What did you think I was going to say? Stop it with your dirty mind!)
Catch you later.